A Sister For Katie

A Sister For Katie

Growing up is tough, we’ll all agree to that. For some it’s tougher than others. Without getting to heavy, or calling out the little violins to soon. I will just say growing up for me was in deed tough.  I grew up far too fast and skipped over the “being a kid” part completely.
I was raised in a very strict household. Children were to be seen and not heard, etc. Only A’s were allowed and extracurricular activities had to be academically valued. Being the eldest I carried a lot of responsibilities (along with stress) and actually developed my first ulcer at a very early age (another story perhaps for another day). My younger brother is several years my junior and we lacked that wonderful sibling connection so many share growing up. No matter how hard I tried over the years we never connected. We are two people, so very different from one another. Every time I have extended my love and support it has always been rejected (do I hear violins yet?)
 I used to envy the sibling connections I’d see in my friend’s families. I used to spend a lot of time alone. I often wrote in my diary about how nice it would be to have a sister to confide in. Someone closer to my age. Someone to lean on, and share confidences with.
I always had very strong friendships and a diverse group of friends. But, there still was no substitute for the sister I had always wanted. A recent announcement on the Oprah Winfrey show regarding the discovery of her half-sister brought forward something I never thought I’d write a blog about…….
 I too have a sister! I learned of her and met her for the very first time in 1999!  She is beautiful, talented, successful, and artistic.  She spent her whole life thinking she was an only child. Although we found each other late in our lives we now have the sister we had both wished for. We haven’t seen each other since 1999. But, we stay connected through emails, letters and facebook!I love technology!
You see, she lives in Tokyo! ……………………………
You may wonder why I have a photo of  Blythe dolls on this post. My big sister’s company created Blythe.  My sister is an extraordinary woman. She has many successful ventures and is also a hula teacher. I am proud to know her, to love her, and to call her my sister. She has a blog too CLICK HERE

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  1. Odie Langley says:

    Katie, as I got into your blog today I got the feeling that you really needed a hug. I do hope with the benefits of modern technology you two can see each other at least by way of computer cameras. Be sure and let her know that I think the dolls are beautiful and I really mean that. Their expressions are gorgious. You might now have had a close family growing up but I do hope you feel the closeness of our blog family. Have a blessed day.

  2. PoetessWug says:

    Oh Katie, I saw that Oprah show too! I was sitting and crying about it because I also have siblings…yes, more than one…that I have never met! I have 5! My biological father never told them about me, and then he died. :-( I found them, but they don't appear to want to have a relationship with me. The only one I converse with occasionally is his widow. She sent me pictured of the family…and of my father. You see, I never met him either. He disappeared back to his life after he found out about my birth. So, talk about rejection!! So, I feel your pain, and I say if your sister is willing, do everything you can to build a relationship with her…Thankfully I know I'm pretty fabulous! ^_^ So if they don't come around, I'll still love them all anyway, and their not getting to know me will be their loss! :-]

  3. Formerly known as Frau says:

    How wonderful….I have four sisters and with that is a lot of headaches and drama but also a lot of love and laughter. Some times you don't appreciate them until your an adult. So exciting to have a talented sister I hope you made up for loss time.

  4. welcome to my world of poetry says:

    What a wonderful blog, it brought a few tears in my eyes. I am so pleased you found your sister.


  5. Queen Bee's Musings says:

    Life journeys lead to much and create us to become…
    A sister to share is a wonderful life journey. So very happy you have connected with yours! I have 3 sisters and they have added much to my life.

  6. Thanks for sharing this story with us. It was quite touching.

  7. Jennifer says:

    How very cool you found your sister!…I like you grew up too quickly and lived in a very strict house…w 5 kids there was always someone around but my sis is 5 yrs younger so we werent close..it is neat to have a relationship w her now since we both know our family dynamics and it is neat to see it from someone else's eyes. Oprah has come thru a lot…it is good to see her nieces doing so well and her half sister, it spite of being raised in foster care.
    I thought it so interesting that no one mentioned who Patty's (the new one)father was…either Oprah's Mom didnt know or she didnt say…also the man that raised Oprah Mr. Winfrey, does not appear to be her birth father. I think every family has secrets…kinda refreshing to bring light to them! thanks for sharing…

  8. ethelmaepotter! says:

    Wow! How amazing that you found out you have a sister, found her, MET her, keep in touch with her halfway round the world…and she's a very successful woman!

    I am impressed!

  9. I had a tough childhood also. I had eight sibling but grew up as an only child. My dad was married four times. Things were crazy but in my neighborhood most of the kids came from dysfunctional homes.A lot of us formed close friendships and still keep contact with each other after all these years.I am happy you found your sister. I find that in bad things there will always be some good.I learned early to not look at any weakness I may have adopted from my child hood but appreciate the strength's I would not have if I had not been born into my wonky little family and I think you are able to do the same thing. Thank you for sharing with us..I know it is not always an easy thing to do.

  10. The Girl from Cherry Blossom Street says:

    how wonderful! i'm sure the both you of have enriched each other's lives!

  11. Awwwww! That is very sweet. Your sister is a lucky gal to have you. Thanks for stopping by today. I am following you now. Blessings…


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  12. Thank you for stopping by and saying hello over at Killing Time.
    Your story about your sister is amazing, especially since you didn't have that as a child. I hope your relationship continues to grow and you become even closer!

  13. Stephanie says:
  14. Real Life In A Minute says:

    How fortunate to find your sister. I'd be lost without mine. I can't imagine finding, now, as an adult that I have another sibling. Anything's possible though. Following from Thurs Blog Hop

  15. Babysmartees says:

    Your site is beautiful. Very glad I found you on Mom Bloggers. I hope you are still willing to follow because I would love for you to check out my site http://www.babysmartees.blogspot.com – maybe you would consider a product review for Babysmartees http://www.babysmartees.com?

    Have a wonderful weekend, Paula

  16. Steve Finnell says:

    you are invited to follow my blog

  17. Wow. That's a deep post today. I'm sorry to hear of your childhood–that is rough. Reminds me of that new book—what's the name…"Tiger Mom" or something. Life is too short to be so dang strict. I'm glad I have fun with my kids.

    Hope you can enjoy a friendship with your sister. That would be a nice surprise, wouldn't it?

  18. Brooke Douglass says:

    What a wonderful story! I am so happy for you and love listening to your story! I am your new follower, come check out my blog too! Brooke
    Girl Boy Girl Inspired

  19. I really enjoyed reading the posts on your blog. I would like to invite you to come on over to my blog and check it out. God bless, Lloyd

  20. Heavenly Savings says:

    Cute Blog! I’m a new follower Happy Saturday!! I would love for you to stop and take a look at my blog as well! Thanks!

  21. KathyMorelli says:

    What a beautiful site and beautiful post. Good luck with your new found sister. I hope you like the game I was passed on. Irecently won The Stylish Blogger Award and now I am passing it onto you. Congratulations! Find out the award details here: http://blog.birthtouch.com Namaste, Kathy

  22. Tatter Beans says:

    wow that is an awesome story …. Im so glad you where able to meet ….
    I don't see my siblings .. I moved from the UK to the States 3 yrs ago..but we also keep in touch via the internet and phone calls.
    Hope you have a blessed week
    Hopped over from The Elephants Trunk

  23. How cool that you found each other and are able to stay in touch. I hope you're able to one day spend more time together.


  24. You are so blessed to have found that sister. My sister and I are estranged and it is so unfortunate and sad. It's none of my doing. What a waste! Thank goodness for my two sweet brothers.
    have a blessed week!
    Ladybug Creek

  25. Katberine…that was just THE most touching post EVER!! I had chills reading it because I was brought up the very same way you were. my dad was severe in the way he treated us and there was much competetion beetween us. I, too, had little love of my sisters…until my mother (whom I loved very much) died. The one sister and I became extremely close almost taking our mother's place.
    When I read that you found a sister, I was amazed…and so happy for you!! Almost like a huge gift God was saving for you! Wonderful!! Hugs…Donna

  26. caterpillar says:

    Hi Katie…I could empathize when you wrote about being the eldest with a lot of responsibilities because I'm the eldest too…it's great to know that you found your sister…having a sister is always so nice….thanks for coming over to my blog…:)

  27. Sue@Uniquely Chic says:

    Wow, that is one bittersweet story. I saw that Oprah episode and it was so touching. I'm so glad for you that you found your sister. There really is nothing like a sibling bond as long as it is a good one. Too bad about your brother but ya never know what the future holds~Sue

  28. MusingMom6 says:

    It has been difficult for me to understand why there is so much "dis-connectedness" in families. It has been that way since the beginning, though. I put a lot of effort into creating togetherness at some level with my kids. They don't have to like everything, but find something to like about each other.

    Your story is a gift, God knew how much you wanted/needed a sister.

  29. Oh Katherine, I am so sorry that your childhood was less than optimal. How beautiful that you and your lovely sister have found one another, that you married a wonderful man and had a gorgeous daughter. May you find in adulthood the magic not afforded in childhood.

  30. Oh I got goosebumps! That is wonderful!

  31. Katherine!!!!! You have no idea how surprised I was after reading this. So this is the siter you’ve been telling me about all along? THE Junko Wong is YOUR SISTER???!!! That’s the coolest thing ever! Sorry for sounding such a fantard but I have been following her blog for such a long time ever since I got my first Blythe. She works for an amazing company and you’re so lucky to have her for a sister. And she’s just as lucky to have you as her sister of course. Two sisters brimming with too much awesomeness. You really made my day! :)


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