The Right Words for Grieving
Hello friends, this is not the post I had planned to share today. But you all know life often has different plans. My husband’s brother (my brother in law) passed away suddenly on Sunday. As we grieve his passing, we are reminded that life is fragile. We are only here for a short while. It is normal for people to have a spiritual struggle surrounding the loss. I pray this post resonates with you. I hope you find it to be helpful whenever you are faced with the question….
What to say to someone who is grieving
It is important to express your emotional and practical support when you acknowledge their loss. Here are a few things to say when someone you care about loses a loved one.
- May you find solace in knowing that God is always present, even in the darkest moments.
- Remember that God’s love surrounds you and your family, and He is with you, offering strength and comfort.
- Share a memory, I remember…
- God is still good even in the midst of your pain. You may be angry at Him right now and that’s okay. “We can always take refuge in Him. He will never leave us nor forsake us.” Deuteronomy 31:6, Hebrews 13:5
- You can share comforting scriptures, offer prayers, and express hope in a future reunion with their loved ones. The promise of eternal life.
- “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Psalm 147:3
- “name” was so loved and my life is better because he/she was in it.
Please avoid saying things like: “time heals all wounds.” “They’re in a better place,” “Everything happens for a reason”, “Be strong” or “God has a new angel”. Because, it can sound hollow and dismissive of their pain. Please remember grief is a process, and everyone goes through the stages differently.
I am so sorry for your family’s loss, Katherine. I pray that the love and faith you share will bring some solace in the days ahead as you grieve, remember and celebrate your loved one and all he meant to each of you.
Thank you for your heartfelt comment my friend. Hugs!
My heartfelt condolences to you. May the Lord wrap you in His arms continually.
Thank you so much Lea.Hugs!
oh katherine what a reminder of life …
My prayers. It is hard, because I know that with my loss in January of both my dad and brother within a 3-day period, it is especially hard. Today is the 3-month marker of my dad, and also the 1-year marker of having my dad along for his and my cherished viewing of the eclipse in Indianapolis. Once my dad saw the eclipse he was so glad he seen one, and was a milestone. We are only here a while, and I am glad to be here as long as God has me here. I thank you for your hard work on your blog. And most of all I thank God for being able to write this, and for having me here on earth. Bless.
Jerry I’m so sorry to learn of your loss. Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment. You and Yours are in my prayers. God Bless
Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear this news Katherine and may the Good Lord give you and your husband and your family much comfort and peace in this difficult time, take care!
Thank you for your kind comment my friend. Hugs!
Katherine,
So sorry for your loss. May God heal your hearts. My prayers are with you.
Blessing,
Bev
Thank you my friend xo
So very sorry! Prayers for you and your family as you deal with this sudden loss.
Thank you so much Alex. Hugs
I’m so sorry to hear this Katherine. You’re in my thoughts & prayers. And you are so right, life is oh so very fragile. Thank you for sharing this with us today. XO- MaryJo
Thank you my friend prayers are always appreciated, I’ll share your comment with my hubby. xo
I am sorry for your loss.
I pray for peace for your husband and your loved ones.
Thank you so much Maureen, I will share your comment with my hubby. Hugs!